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Motivation Monday: In A Genealogical Funk

9/7/2014

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You are the family's historian. You've spent years or perhaps even decades of your life researching family ancestors and digging up documents, photos, articles and stories about the people that came before you. You write about these people, and maybe even publish a book or a blog related to your family's history. Although you find all of these ancestors and their stories so interesting, it seemingly appears that few other people share your interest and perhaps don't even care to know anything about the past.

And even among other genealogists and historians, maybe you have an idea for a project or website or class or field trip and you pitch it to your local historical or genealogical society.  But, in the end, the group decides to put its resources towards other endeavors, and your request goes unfulfilled. 

Experiences like these can make us question our work, question why we spend so much time and money researching people who are dead. (Because as alive as they may seem to us, the reality is that they are gone.) Personally, I am in a 'genealogical funk' right now, wondering why I spend so much time on my and my husband's ancestors when I could be reading more books or keeping a cleaner house or learning how to cook better. I have lost some enthusiasm for 'digging up the dirt' and writing about it on my blog. It's almost as if I don't know in which direction to move, and I'm sort of frozen in my indecision. And this feeling of 'All this doesn't matter' keeps permeating my thoughts and further adds to my apathy.

Have you ever been discouraged or disheartened during your genealogical journey? What has helped you recharge your ambitions and regain your enthusiasm for genealogical research?

©2014, copyright Emily Kowalski Schroeder

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Celia Lewis link
9/8/2014 09:56:45 am

Perfect! All those feelings simply mean you're moving into a change period - soon you'll be deciding to do something different, or change directions somewhat, or leap down another pathway in genealogy. So many choices for you. It might be uncomfortable, but embrace it.

As for me, I decided to do genealogy strictly for me, myself and I - to figure out how my abusive mother became 'that way' to me, what my parents' ancestors were like, and even, who they were! I knew nothing. So it's all been a journey of discovery. Along the way, I've found two cousins (a first, and a second cousin) who are also genealogy nuts, and we've become good friends. I decided 2 years ago to start blogging, and that has been another challenge to work on, especially when I decided that I must inventory my great-grandfather's Terwilliger Souvenir Album, in a separate blog. I've seen recently that a niece-in-law is kind of interested, an ex-sister-in-law is also intrigued, and my kids are sort-of-maybe interested in what I've found. Whatever. I don't really care. I'm doing this entirely for myself. They can manage it - or not - once I'm gone.

As for ideas/projects etc. that your local groups don't seem to be interested in, do them anyway: there's Hangouts (DearMyrtle would be happy to help you figure them out), You-Tube, magazine articles (various ones on the Internet) and who knows what else you can find to get your passion out there for others to experience. You have lots to offer. I'll be watching... and wondering what you will do... Exciting. Best wishes.

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Emily
9/9/2014 11:13:26 am

Thanks for your words of encouragement, Celia! I definitely haven't regretted getting my hands dirty with the genealogy - like you said, I've met some great cousins along the way and my family has given me very positive feedback. I will keep on going and see what the future has to offer.

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Jana Last link
9/12/2014 06:13:52 am

Emily,

I think it's important to do your genealogy for you and your family. Especially for your children. I've been so gratified to see at least two of my five children appreciating family history in the comments they've made. They are adults now, and I've been involved in my own family history research since they were kids.

I want to let you know that your post is listed in today's Fab Finds post at http://janasgenealogyandfamilyhistory.blogspot.com/2014/09/follow-friday-fab-finds-for-september.html

Have a wonderful weekend!

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Emily
9/12/2014 06:40:34 am

Thanks, Jana. It's good to hear about experiences from family history researchers whose children are older. You know that mine are still so young and even though I do involve them as much as possible, they don't really "get it" just yet. But I'm hopeful that they will be appreciative of my efforts in the future. ~Emily

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Dana Leeds link
9/12/2014 07:11:42 am

I struggle with the decision to devout so much time to a 'hobby'/passion that most of my family doesn't care about, too. I don't know if they ever will! But, maybe someday someone will. I am following in my great aunt's footsteps & I sure appreciate the work she did!

I've finally decided that I am a historian. I am remembering the people and stories that wouldn't be remembered otherwise. I am documenting the lives of everyday people and how they affected their world around them and how the world affected them.

I recently started blogging about my journey, too. I don't get a lot of comments or feedback, but I do dig deeper with practically every post! And, as I write it helps me to unravel the chaos. I often uncover new facts as I go through the process of writing! So, I'll keep blogging. If others enjoy it, that's great. If not, it's still my 'record' of what I've uncovered!

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Emily
9/12/2014 07:50:34 am

Thanks for reading my post, Dana, and for commenting. It's good to know that I'm not alone in my thoughts. This blog of mine in 2+ years old now, and sometimes I think I just need to go back through my old posts to really see that, yes, I have accomplished a lot in documenting my family's history and that it IS worth my time, even if it doesn't always seem that way. ~Emily

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Nancy link
9/12/2014 02:31:56 pm

I think I know just how you feel, Emily. Sometimes I think, why bother? And then I remember that finding our ancestors and recording their lives is a way to keep them alive, and I continue. I just spent a few minutes looking at your "Growing Little Leaves" tap and I would say that you're growing a new crop of family historians/genealogists. They're just too young right now to take an in depth interest, but they're growing up with a broader environment and an acceptance that ancestors are important.

I hope you find motivation again. When this has happened to me in the past I've chosen one ancestor and searched more in depth to learn about the environment in which she lived, both physical and social. Sometimes reading a great gen. book has helped, even a fictional work. Other times, I just take a brief break and let my mind wander around my ancestors.

Best wishes to you, Emily. I'm looking forward to your next posts -- I added your blog to my feedly list.

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Emily
9/15/2014 01:50:02 pm

Thank you, Nancy, for reading my post and for your advice. On that note, I really DO need to do more background history reading on times ans places - I think it would help me find more conflict and complexities in my ancestors' lives, which of course would make it all more exciting once again. ~Emily

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Pam Hatton
9/15/2014 12:42:30 pm

Hi Emily,
You are not alone! I remember that awful feeling of apathy combined with anxiety. I was afraid I had permanently lost my motivation, all the while knowing there were many questions I still wanted answered.
This seemed to go on forever. But I think it was probably six months at most.
I am a retired librarian so I love research, and helping people. While I don't remember specifically what helped me turn back to my family history, I'm pretty sure someone contacted me through one of my online trees asking a question about family. I could not ignore them and having had a break I was ready to start work on my tree again.

I wish you good luck, and peace until your enthusiasm returns.

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Emily
9/15/2014 01:57:08 pm

Hi Pam! Thanks for reading my post, and for commenting. It's good to know that other people have been through the same kind of phase. Right now, I'm taking a break, cleaning out all my kids' old clothes and toys, and getting them ready for a consignment sale. Something completely different to clear my mind a little :-) ~Emily

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